Author: Sidonie

Some of you might be familiar with the concept of twin flame. Some of you might believe you have a twin flame. And some of you might even be holding off on a relationship unless it is with your twin flame.

For those of you unfamiliar with the term, basically a twin flame is your other half, your ultimate beloved, you true love.

Anyway after much soul searching, I have discovered that putting on hold my life for my twin flame is ridiculous, and that actually it is not my destiny here on Earth. Yes, it is true that reuniting with him will be blissful, but what does one do if their soul contract means reunification in another dimension?

I decided to share my discovery on my facebook page Soul Sex. “It is true that we seek reunion with our true twin flame, but whilst on Earth we are here to exchange DNA with others. Enjoy the process, rather than pining for your beloved, with whom you will reconnect for eternity anyway,” I wrote.

Accompanied by a stunning photo, it began to be shared profusely on social media, and the initial comments were in total agreement. “If you can’t be with the one you love, love the one you’re with,” said one man. “Non-exclusive is what Divine Source is, so we are too… that is our true nature,” added a woman.

But then the opposition began, “No thanks. Fidelity is fine. Patience is a virtue,” politely remarked one woman. “For yourselves. I’d rather stay separate for now,” said another woman. “She is right!!! I’d rather wait,” agreed a man. Maybe these two are twin flames, I wondered, but I had to ask myself will they find one another?

“How boring!!!..I would rather wait for my twin flame..,” said a lady. Boring? What could be more boring than waiting and longing for something that’s not in the now. “Not once you connect with your twin. Nothing else comes close,” added another.

“I don’t like being asked to sleep around. I’m not a whore,” said one woman. I tried reassuring her with, “This is not about infidelity or promiscuity. This is about honouring every step of your journey back to oneness.”

Some began to share their twin flame experiences after a man asked, “How do you know if someone is your twin flame?” “You will KNOW,” responded a woman. “Holding to limitation is not advisable. Perhaps there was a time when twin-flame union was everything, now we have a grand new opportunity – embrace it,” said one wise woman. “It is a timely reminder for me, after being lovesick all day. Pining. Tomorrow I will continue on my path,” said one brave man. “Still water grows stagnant after a while,” explained yet another man.

More comments came in: “well said!”, “These words are so true. Thank you for sharing the validation.” “Very True”, “yes TRUTH thank you…. it is such a wide truth in the perspective you offer to all of us.”

“I haven’t heard of twin flames before…hmm, new thought process to process ; ) Is it the same as a soulmate?,” asked a woman. “A twin flame is like your other half, a soul mate is a karmic partner,” I explained. “Thank you for the reply, guess I still have a lot of learning to do before I am ready,”  she answered with a winking smile.

“Soul mates, soul lovers, soul fragments, twin flames… some souls split like cells over the eons… gets kinda complicated once you read some esoteric cosmology. Love the pic. The quote is the most retarded thing I think I’ve ever read. My God… Guess that woman with 10 kids and 10 partners is perfectly following her appointed divine purpose. Well done! *Pukes*,” said the grumpy man.

“You’ re right – by exchanging DNA a NEW individual is born!! What a beautiful way to think of it! I have one such exchange, not with a soul mate or twin flame and yes I pine. I needed this message- thank you !” “Exactly the truth Soul Sex, too many people forget what it means to be human. It’s about sharing love, not f*cking everything you see but choosing those special people that are not always a twin flame.

I must disagree with you Sidonie this time, I’m not here to exchange DNA,” said one woman. You might want to rethink this post,” offered another.

Well this has triggered quite a few people indeed. Funnily, there would have been a time when it would have triggered me too. Blessings to all, wherever you are on your journey. Ultimately there is no separation. We are all One.

Sidonie Bouchet, author of Alleluia, is the founder of the facebook Soul Sex. She offers online spiritual mentoring sessions to help you reclaim fragmented aspects of yourself. You can contact her at www.soletosoulsex.com

Is there such a thing as drug enlightenment?

A few months ago, I wrote on my facebook page Soul Sex, “Some believe drugs are the fast route to enlightenment. In my experience, it’s an illusion. If anything, they set you back”. And of course, this did not sit well for some reading the post.

Maybe too many of them had heard of, ‘A lazy man’s guide to enlightenment’…I’m not sure. I do know however that the above statement is my experience. Having experimented with drugs since a teenager, I feel well and truly warranted to share such a realisation.

Yes it is true that there is a place for drug taking in shamanic ritual, such as ayahuasca. But how many of you are trained shamans? Do you realise that ingesting psychoactive substances is only one aspect of the rigorous training?

As a health practitioner, I have observed that a person who has partaken in these hallucinogenic decoctions is an energetic mess afterwards. Their auric field has been blasted open, enabling them to be one with all. But premature opening, just like forced kundalini awakening, taxes the body…and even the soul.

Psychoactive drugs destroy your protective auric sheath, opening you up to both good and malevolent energies long after the drugs wear off. Mind-altering drugs, both recreational and prescriptive, also leave residue in the energetic field. Chemicals leave gunk and sticky blotches in your aura.

The body is the vehicle of the soul. Becoming your soul and forgetting your vehicle is similar to reckless driving. It’s fun and freeing at the time, but often results in a damaged vehicle, and a battered body.

Sometimes, this can even lead to death, and disconnection of the soul.

Drugs scatter your energetic field, giving you the impression that you are one with all. You need to be one with yourself first however, then you can become one with everything. And coming back to wholeness means reclaiming fragmented aspects.

There really is no easy route to enlightenment, other than surrender. Surrender means letting go of your personal agenda and trusting in the grand plan, even if you don’t understand it. It’s about faith. Forcing enlightenment is like forcing authenticity, it’s just not really possible.

Besides, enlightenment is not a race. We are here on Earth to learn, to acquire experiences, to make discoveries. It is true that taking drugs might be a part of your learning, enabling you to experience the falsity of illusion, but they are not the way to enlightenment.

Ultimately, meditation, not medication, will reconnect you to All That Is. Drugs may open you up and help you see another way, but they won’t get you back to your true essence.

Too often people will take drugs to numb themselves of the harsh realities of life. Once drugs become a crutch, once you become addicted or dependent on anything, you are no longer free. Ascension is about freedom and liberation. You can’t take anything with you, even the effects of your last mind-altering substance.

Sidonie Bouchet is the founder/writer of the popular facebook page Soul Sex. She has recently published her first book Alleluia, a spiritual journey from the dark into the light. She offers Spiritual Alchemy sessions both in Maleny & online. For more information, visit www.soletosoulsex.com

By Sidonie Bouchet

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